I have tried to leave a few times before, he has eventually moved out after me and the dc have stayed away for a couple of weeks, but I always end up feeling guilty, realising my faults too and getting back together. Last time we separated for about 2 months and then he came back, things were good for a few months, or maybe that is just because I was ensuring I didn’t upset him.
I feel like I can’t maintain it without doing something drastic so that I can’t go back on my decision. I’m thinking about moving house with DC into a new rental property.
He was shouting at me yesterday morning as he said I spoke to him badly, I don’t think I did, I had been up half the night with I’ll ds and then woke up late for work so was rushing around. He told me I was pathetic, threw his deodorant and aftershave on his shelf and swore at me, all with dc awake in the next room.
We usually swap cars on Fridays as I work longer and he does School run, we have 4dc and his car only has 4 seats. I asked him to swap keys and he refused and continued to have a go at me for being rude to him, he was shouting at me so I said he would have to walk the kids to school if he wouldn’t be reasonable and swap cars, he told me to shut up and not talk to him so I left in my car as I was already late for work.
He then sends me text messages continuing to tell me off and at lunch time demanded drive back to swap cars.
Sorry.... I needed to vent