WWYD: Boyfriend at Gentleman’s Club

[sunshiney78]

Hello
I’ve been dating someone for just over 2 months. Last night he & his colleague took some clients out to a fancy dinner. He kept in touch with me until I went to bed & this morning I received a text when was sent around 3am saying he’s on his way home.

I asked him what he did after dinner & he said the clients wanted to go to a gebtleman’s Club, so that’s where they took them.

How would you react to this?

It’s not empowering. It’s just a job.

It pays very, very well.

There are male strippers.

There are not male strip clubs though where women can pay for naked men to grind all over them in private though is there coyote? Bit different....

I would be hurt by this, but you’ve only been together a short while so it’s possible he has no clue that you’d be upset. Discuss, see what his response is. I couldn’t live with it. At least he was honest.