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I leave today!

84 replies

Olicity17 · 05/12/2017 06:48

Today i move into my mum and dads. Stbexh is emotionally and sexually abusive. I was trying to live in the same house, amicabley. Its not working.

But my mum and dad have made room for me and the kids there. I have to get the kids to school and then meeting dad so he can help.

Since i have told him i am leaving, he has ramped up the abuse. He is telling me my teenager doesnt want to come with me until the weekend due to some school work she has.

Once i get her to mums she will be happier there. But its actually getting her there.

I have 1 hour left where he could hurt me, before thw school run. Pls hold my hand. I am so scared.

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Olicity17 · 09/12/2017 19:11

And thank you, all, for your support. Its really keeping me strong.

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WhooooAmI24601 · 09/12/2017 19:53

Ah OP I came back on deliberately to find your thread and 'see' how things are going. So pleased your DD has been to see you. You are incredible, genuinely. Please remind yourself of that every single day.

RandomMess · 09/12/2017 20:00

Great news!

lollipop7 · 09/12/2017 21:57

Lovely news!
You've done the right thing and that will keep you - and the children - going.
Wishing you a peaceful, relaxed and happy rest of the evening 💐

MrsMozart · 09/12/2017 23:02

Lovely update.

Bumbelinadance · 09/12/2017 23:13

That's great
Really pleased x

AdoraBell · 09/12/2017 23:16

Only just seen this, that’s a fabulous update Grin

Well done. Onwards and upwards.

notapizzaeater · 09/12/2017 23:29

That’s brilliant news x

Olicity17 · 10/12/2017 16:45

Today has been good. Tension is rising between mr and my mum. I know she loves me. But she keeps pushing me to talk about dhs behaviour. Then she keeps saying things like 'i dont care if its you or him that is in the wrong'. She just doesnt get abuse.

She wants me to gave a 10pm curfew when the kids arent here and isnt happy that work will pay for a hotel for me once a week. Again when the kids arent here. So i am not expecting her to have the kids.

Laid in bed, last night, i got angry. Ex is sat in a 4 bedroom house. While me, 2 kids, mum and dad are all squashed in a 3 bed semi. Its seems so unfair.

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