There's no rational explanation is there?

[uncoolnn]

I'm hoping this makes sense as I'm just writing as things come into my head.

Me and DP have been together just over 12 months. All well and good until about a month ago when I started noticing small changes in his behaviour, e.g. secretive, evasive etc.

It's come to a head today as we've both been off work (we don't live together) and I suggested we do something today. He said no, that he wanted a day to himself as he gets no time to himself anymore. Ok, fair enough. All good.

However, call it sixth sense but something didn't add up. I asked what he was up to (not unusual as I do most days) and he said he was just chilling at home. I had a horrible sense he was lying to me so unbeknown to him I drove past his house. His car wasn't there.

I decided to call him. After much trying to wriggle out of it he eventually admitted he had gone to see a female friend. Now, I know this woman, I had never suspected anything before. However the fact he's lied about it suggests there's something to hide?

In my heart I know there's probably not another rational explanation but just wanted some impartial opinions.

He's full of shit.

I had a boyfriend who wanted to spend all his time with me, which was fine, we were best friends and were together nearly 5 years. When we did split up he went on about how I'd ruined his life and stopped him seeing his friends. It was bullshit, we had had the same friendship group before we got together for a start, we had carried on hanging out with the same people throughout our relationship, mostly because I had wanted to whereas he always wanted to stay in just the two of us

You caught him out. He dumped you because he knew you were going to dump him.

Him and his friends are late 20s. I'm 24. Im spending the evening with my lovely lovely mum who is making me feel a whole lot better.

I am worth so much more than this.

So young Darling! Don't waste your time on this user!