Why isn't he offering to go

[UterusHaver]

We are going to separate. We both know it.

But the fucker is still here. Why? He knows it's over, he's got somewhere to go to.

I can't sleep when he's here. I'm so disgusted with myself that I can't ask him to go.

Yes. Lots of surprisingly civilised conversation. No one shouted. Everyone cried. It was very hard.

that's tough but hopefully you can get something set up for contact amicably that works for everyone.

Why do you want to separate? Why doesn’t he?

I had another thread that would help www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3067926-Im-not-sure-I-like-him-any-more