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Do any women respond favourably to dick pics?

61 replies

Holdtightdontletgo · 26/10/2017 17:50

I mean when you haven't even met someone yet.

I have just been on pof and swapped numbers with a guy who wanted to what's app. He was very good looking and his profile said he was a manager and didn't ring any alarm bells. Within literally 30 seconds, he asked, how horny are you? and sent me a dick pic, well a video but I didn't play it.

I wonder what his hit rate is?

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AlternativeTentacle · 26/10/2017 17:51

Did you send some back?

Zaphodsotherhead · 26/10/2017 17:52

I've often wondered this. What is their hit rate? How many women send back tit pics or full length nudes?

Why would you?

Holdtightdontletgo · 26/10/2017 17:53

He just sent it completely cold, no build up chat or anything.

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Be3Al2Si6O18 · 26/10/2017 17:55

Surely there is a law against this?
It is the modern equivalent of 'flashing' I guess.

MyBrilliantDisguise · 26/10/2017 17:57

I think a lot of women send photos back when they actually know the guy but I'd love to know how many just send photos out to all and sundry.

Holdtightdontletgo · 26/10/2017 18:00

Even if I was looking for a casual thing, I wouldn't appreciate it just straight off like that.

When I didn't respond, he said, don't you like that type of thing? I said, I'm looking for the real deal. He said, sorry, good luck x Confused

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Santawontbelong · 26/10/2017 18:00

I got one years ago - I was so intrigued (don't ask) I met him. . Had a great time for a few months!!

blessedmummyov5 · 26/10/2017 18:04

Seems to be the done thing on one of my Facebook groups someone posted the dick pic she had been sent and lord it was hideous 🤣🤣🤣 he was saying what a fine specimen it was but in fact there was hundreds of comments slating it the poor boy didn’t realise his todger wud end up on fb being roasted ........... I’m sure someone on here has seen it 😂😂

chatty1234 · 26/10/2017 18:08

Seems to be the normal way nowadays which I think it’s anything but normal... if people in a relationship want to do this that’s between them but not to random people Blush

BriechonCheese · 26/10/2017 18:08

I don't understand why they do it as soon as they first make contact, grim.

My single friends share their POF and Tinder dick picks in our whatsapp group and we graffiti them and they send the funniest one back. My favourite was my friend turning the dick into a baguette in the basket of a stripe clad Frenchman's bike. Grin

WinchestersInATardis · 26/10/2017 18:09

No. And I like sexting. Including receiving naughty pics but only if it's someone I know and trust, and who knows they're welcome. A stranger absolutely not?
The reason is that it's not the dick pic but the intention behind it. Like most of us here, I'm a mother. I've seen one before. A dick pic itself isn't that shocking.
It's rather that all men know that most women don't like getting them. And these guys do it anyway.
It's a giant big red flashing sign that says 'I'll do what I want sexually without asking even though I know you probably won't want it'
I block any guy who sends them and I would never date one. Their first interaction proves they aren't interested in respecting my boundaries.

Bananalanacake · 26/10/2017 18:10

But surely FB would have to take that photo down - against decency laws and all that.

Holdtightdontletgo · 26/10/2017 18:16

Yes if you are in a relationship with someone that's completely different.

I am wondering how the next woman will respond.

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blessedmummyov5 · 26/10/2017 18:17

It did but people screen shot it and kept reposting in the comments

Pringlemunchers · 26/10/2017 18:28

I still don't get the point in sending them? What do think they are going to achieve?

anxiousnow · 26/10/2017 18:33

I wonder this too. I innocently didn't see one coming the other day with look what happens when i think of you then he kept asking me if i liked it. Put me off him. I like ones with a bit left to the imagination not full on mid wank pics

Mxyzptlk · 26/10/2017 18:40

My DD (adult) was told by a gay guy that he wouldn't want a relationship with someone if he didn't like the look of his dick.
She said "What, you meet someone then nip into the toilet for a quick look?"

No, they have gay dating sites with dick pics instead of faces.

So maybe (some) straight guys have the same idea and think women will actually want to see this and it'll be attractive to them.

TacoFlavouredKisses · 26/10/2017 18:41

It's a giant big red flashing sign that says 'I'll do what I want sexually without asking even though I know you probably won't want it'
I block any guy who sends them and I would never date one. Their first interaction proves they aren't interested in respecting my boundaries.

Spot on and it makes me sad that it worked on a pp Sad

I used POF many years ago and received an onslaught of dicks (in a couple of senses) until I worked out how to hide my profile. No ta🍆

AnyFucker · 26/10/2017 18:43

How about that tv programme "Naked Attraction" ?

The women on there just love rating the dicks

OliviaBonas · 26/10/2017 18:44

I think it turns the guys on to know they've sent them. If they get a photo back in return then great but it's all about them.

Bluntness100 · 26/10/2017 18:47

I think if you’re looking for a meaningful relationship then plenty of fish probably isn’t the right site op.

I’ve no idea why men do it, I can’t imagine lot of women like it.

SciFiFan2015 · 26/10/2017 18:59

Maybe all women could have a stock response.

“Fab thanks! I’ll add that to my tiny but hilarious album. I’m getting quite a collection!”

AnyFucker · 26/10/2017 19:04

"That looks like a cock, but smaller" is a good response

Aureservoir · 26/10/2017 19:06

I am glad I don't have a Smartphone.

abbsisspartacus · 26/10/2017 19:08

I had one sent to me that looked like a button mushroom I laughed about it with a male friend of mine I was baffled he seemed so proud of it I blocked and deleted him as I couldn't think of a thing to say 😂