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Do any women respond favourably to dick pics?

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Holdtightdontletgo · 26/10/2017 17:50

I mean when you haven't even met someone yet.

I have just been on pof and swapped numbers with a guy who wanted to what's app. He was very good looking and his profile said he was a manager and didn't ring any alarm bells. Within literally 30 seconds, he asked, how horny are you? and sent me a dick pic, well a video but I didn't play it.

I wonder what his hit rate is?

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Bluntness100 · 26/10/2017 19:09

It’s not only that, I’d suspect if it was a pic of good looking guy, it was actually some old geezer sending pics of his dick out to random women on the Internet. It is the modern equivalent of flashing,

Namethecat · 26/10/2017 19:14

No thanks - for me the attraction is what it is attached to. I've never been sent one - thankfully !

Hannalau · 26/10/2017 19:16

My fave ever.. . "Wow. Looks like I'm the early bird! ;-)

Hannalau · 26/10/2017 19:16

Stock response that is!

PhoenixMama · 26/10/2017 19:16

I always tell them that unsolicited dick pics go to a whatsapp group of gay men, at least they should go where they’re appreciated!

I’ve seen so many of them it’s ridiculous. There was an article going around about how some guys like the power of the shock factor. Agree it’s like digital flashing.

The funniest one I ever got was a dick next to a Dominos pizza no idea why - maybe a size reference!?!?

verbaIkint · 26/10/2017 19:24

@OliviaBonas spot on. I find it quite exisbitionist? My very abusive exp was into that. And I knew if he'd text me a dick pic (was usually with my kids and sent without prior warning) it was guaranteed to be for some poor unsuspecting female on a dating site. It turned him on knowing he'd sent a naked picture to someone because nothing turned him on more than himself.

verbaIkint · 26/10/2017 19:25

exhibitionist * obviously

PlausibleSuit · 26/10/2017 19:26

My DD (adult) was told by a gay guy that he wouldn't want a relationship with someone if he didn't like the look of his dick.
She said "What, you meet someone then nip into the toilet for a quick look?"

No, they have gay dating sites with dick pics instead of faces.

I was about to challenge that one, but no. It's true. We do.

But there's an etiquette. You don't just fling unbidden nobs at each other until it's been established that both parties are receptive. Any other way is just weird.

When I was single and online dating, I would occasionally get sent dick pics from straight men who had literally run out of women to harass, and just desperate for someone, anyone to go, 'that's nice John'. (They got no satisfaction from me.) It's an odd curio of the internet.

kittensinmydinner1 · 26/10/2017 19:27

I have absolutely no idea why men do this. The average male penis is not a thing of beauty. Few women are filled with lust by a picture of a mans genitalia.. list is usually a combination of the cerebral and visual. Cold (hard ?) pics.. ewww not nice.

Ineedmorelemonpledge · 26/10/2017 19:36

Ask them to write your name along the length of it with a biro and then send the picture so you know it’s genuinely theirs. Tell them your name is either Anastasia or Annaliesia or Jacqueline.

Sit back and enjoy the thought of them freaking out about how to fit it on or the scratchy biro.

Then block them.

riceuten · 26/10/2017 19:38

My stock response is either ‘oh! It’s like a penis, only smaller’ or ‘No thanks, I smoke my own’. This also works with flashers, which, if I am going to be honest with you, I think the pics are part of. That you are supposed to be shocked and they get off on that.

lurkingwithlove · 26/10/2017 19:39

AF 😂😂😂

sinceyouask · 26/10/2017 19:39

I can't imagine more than a very small group of women are happy to receive these. And I don't get why men think otherwise. How many men would really want vulva pics? I don't think either sex has particularly gorgeous looking genitals to be honest.

Trills · 26/10/2017 19:43

It's a giant big red flashing sign that says 'I'll do what I want sexually without asking even though I know you probably won't want it'

Yup.

BossaDad · 26/10/2017 19:51

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claraschu · 26/10/2017 19:52

There was a woman who responded to this by bombarding the offender (a complete stranger) with pictures of penises, then lots of people joined in. It was pretty funny.

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Holdtightdontletgo · 26/10/2017 20:07

After what a pp said, I'm wondering now if the guy in the profile photo was actually him after all. He was strikingly good looking, his what's app photo is just of his feet and he has now taken his profile picture down off pof.

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aftertheevent · 26/10/2017 20:09

Dic pics? No no no. Wouldn't see them again. Tells you who they are. And that's not pretty.

aftertheevent · 26/10/2017 20:12

imagine yourself sending genital pictures to someone who you hardly know. That's it really in a nutshell. They would think you were unhinged or easy game. There you go bonkers.

Bluntness100 · 26/10/2017 20:17

Yup. Got yourself a plain old fashioned flasher.

But then like I said, you hear about it, it's a thing so assume it must have some sort of success otherwise nobody would do it

Well one person on here said she did respond, but generally I think the whole act of sending the pic is what they get off on.

colourflash · 26/10/2017 20:20

Lol at men who think we want too get those photos. So gross and funny. Not a turn on at all!! Much rather be sent a cute picture of a kitten wearing a coat. Or is that just me?...

Zaphodsotherhead · 26/10/2017 21:45

Maybe, becauser they get so turned on at the sight of porn bits, they think women are the same? It's the sheer lack of understanding that a) it's bloody rude without even some conversation first and b) penises are basically ugly add-ons and we don't wet our knickers at the mere sight of one that gets me. Like they really don't care.

Maybe we should send in return pictures of our double glazing. On the grounds that we like looking at it, so they should too.

SandyY2K · 26/10/2017 22:06

There's nothing appealing about then you me, but I think because men are very visual and crave pics of women's parts, they think we're the same.

Ineedmorelemonpledge · 27/10/2017 14:50

How many men would really want vulva pics?

Quite a lot.

Rescuepuppydaft2 · 27/10/2017 15:34

As soon as my young friend split up with her ex, she told me she would wake up in the morning to at least ten dick pics on Snapchat. Guys would take the pic then send them to literally every woman on their Snapchat.

She and her friends would laugh and take the mick out of the pics.
I personally find it disgusting! These animals are no better than dirty men hiding in raincoats to flash innocent girls/ women. My dd keeps asking for snapchat , WhatsApp or Facebook, this is why I say no!!! The internet is making it easier for women and girls to be sexually harassed!
It used to be that flashers were deemed creepy and now its like a new generation of men think its acceptable to 'flash' women online!!

I honestly despair at the world I have brought my children into.....

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