I've been dating this guy for a while and he claimed we were exclusive. I thought I was in love. He told me he'd never felt such a connection. A few days ago I became suspicious after an acquaintance mentioned that my guy is a well-known player and, to quote her, "will f*ck anything, from age 16 to age 100, especially if they are gullible or willing to give him money."
That is quite a statement. Obviously I was alarmed. My bestie came up with a plan to see what he's capable of. She followed him using a fake account on his business Instagram and posted a slightly flirtatious comment about how nice it was to meet him. He replied openly on the IG asking her if she was free this Saturday. Then he went into private messages with her and asked her if she likes sex, told her he can take her anywhere she wants on Saturday night and that he can give her whatever she wants, be that a boyfriend or just casual sex, it's all up to her. He gave her his number and gave her a time and place to meet on Saturday. He asked for her age. She gave her fake age of 19. This man is 40 (I'm late 30s).
She asked him if he's definitely single. He said that yes he broke up with his girlfriend just last week and that he'd been with the gf for 6 months. He said "I'm a completely free agent."
I feel so completely humiliated right now. Finding it difficult to cope 