Partner has been lying for months

[Letsgoagain]

Found out a few weeks back my partner has been lying to me for months. Had a falling out with my bestie three months ago and they’ve been communicating behind my back. Few things came up that caught him out and he blatantly lied. She came to me wanting to sort things out and after dinner and a few wines told me. I just don’t know how to move on. Not talking to the friend anymore and partner wants me to ‘get over it’

Sorry just to add..

so what are you going to do?

I’m understand what you are saying heavenleyEyes.. I felt better when my marriage broke down

I feel so scared and exposed. He has a way of breaking your confidence down. My family has ajwsyz praised my cooking etc. then the other day he came to me and sAid never cook again

Op...have you been drinking now ?

Yes sny. If it helps. My son is at his dads for holidays, my daughter is with me and my partner is away. Does that help?

It doesn't help you at all which is precisely my concern.

It may not be fair and it sure is fucking shit....but if he is going around saying you have a drinking problem you posting pissed on social media on an early Tuesday evening is playing right into his hands.

You are reminding me of a poster whose name I have forgotten. She would post drunk and high. She was a huuuuuge self sabotager too.

Wouldn't you be best proving this tosser wrong than proving him right ? Just a thought.

AF Is right. For now at least you need to stay off the booze. You don't want to chance that he or anyone else will see you 'not at your best' or that you post thing when you may not be thinking straight.

If you feel you aren't able to give it up then see your GP

Jess something. That was her. Are you her, op ?