My dh and I had a huge row last night, over a comment he made at dinner which really upset me. We watched that "You are what you eat" and the lady on there had no sex drive, so she was advised to take zinc tablets, well at dinner last night my husband asked if they made minus zinc tablets because he has too much (a high sex drive), so I asked what he meant and he said that he didn't need them but I did. May seem very trivial but really upset me. We have a 20 month old son and I am a SAHM, my husband is a shift worker. We have sex maybe every other month, due to me basically. I don't want sex, I don't even think about it from one month to the next. My mind is so preoccupied with my home life and I am about to go back to work, my dh goes away for scooter rallies and plays golf, and I feel that I try so hard to enable him to do the things that he wants and it still isn't enough. I don't get away for my hobbies and since ds has been born, I haven't even had a night away from him.
I spose what I am asking is, am I being unfair, I can't help not wanting sex but it doesn't help with dh moaning about it, what do I do?