Husband just walked out

[Pogmella]

Can't get hold of anyone in real life but would appreciate some emotional support.

Husband rolled in drunk, had a row. Tried to use his phone for something and realised he'd removed my fingerprint. Things haven't been right for week so challenged him on it. Told me I was crazy and added me (reluctantly after a visit to the bathroom)

Quelle surprise, once he falls asleep.... I find a workplace affair. Hadn't told me because I'm greaving for my mum. What a fucking gent.

He left for a friend's house. We have a 2yo little girl. Apparently this can't be worked out.

Well I see that but also I've looked at timelines and things like when I was invited to work events and have realised it's only 6 weeks? I think it's an infatuation he could get over if he chose to. God I cannot believe this us happening thank you for the support.

Relationship counselling is not just for saving relationships it's also there as an eye opener to why things have come about and maybe why it's not worth saving and can give you closure. Would he consider relate if you explained you need to understand what has gone so wrong and to allow you to move on as this has genuinely shocked you.

Maybe just maybe it is an infatuation and he will get over it and come crawling back but how long before the next one? I'm not saying don't try to salvage it but you can't do it alone.