I've name changed for this but basically I have left a toxic abusive relationship. I wish it was as simple as that.
Ex when he comes to my house to pick kids up and drop them off keeps starting an argument with me. I have repeatedly asked him to stop but he finds something to pick on and goes bat shit.
He was like this during our relationship hence I asked him to leave. It can be the slightest thing I say that sets him off but he goes from 0 to angry in seconds. This was our entire relationship. I left it in the hope it would stop.
I have text him last week saying I will civil with him but that's it and if he argues with me I won't respond. But when he's here he makes it unbearable. He is an emotionally abusing twat, he is the classic narcissist, he entered me on more than one occasion in my sleep, he has blackmailed me, cheated, the list goes on. I think civil is the best he can hope for from me but he keeps arguing with me.
I'm not sure why I'm posting here but how do I deal with it? It's effecting my kids, the eldest one in particular.