I've been seeing my partner for a few months, we have some lovely times together and we've booked a holiday. We see each other over most weekends and he's very loving and attentive though we've not said the L word. I'm really struggling with his relationship with his ex though. He was with her for a couple of years and she finished with him because she had fantasies about someone else and said she no longer fancied him. Not very nice. They'd been split up about a year when we met. Now they've stayed friends which I'm fine with as I'm still friends with my ex - BUT he sees her about twice a week , they do cosy stuff together like cook meals. I can just about wear that but she keeps suggesting we all go out together on dates. Is it me or is that just weird and not on? I'd feel really uncomfortable with her being there. I think I'd feel if I touched him that I was making a point etc. I think my partner thinks I am being a bit unreasonable and I do think they are just friends. But I also think for her it's almost business as usual minus the sex if that makes sense. I'm not a jealous person but this is doing my head in and making me want to take a massive step back from him. I also question her motives. I wouldn't dream of behaving like that with my ex. I think she has the potential to wreck any future relationships he may have. I can't talk to my friends about this so any comments would be greatly appreciated.