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Need someone elses views on neighbour

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seaurchin2016 · 03/08/2017 04:18

Neighbours next door are same age as us- middle aged. He has a very bad anger management problem. At first they were sort of okay. then they starting ignoring us. Next they avoided us. Then we heard nasty one word comments over the fence. We tried to speak to them but they became aggressive and ordered us off their property- we left. the woman now peers through the curtains at us or looks at us at every opportunity and quickly closes the curtains. The man watches us when we are in the garden. We can see their profiles behind the curtains. Sometimes she stands in the window of her home and is obviously mouthing off to us. The other neighbours are friendly. We are not noisy, we go about our own business but consider others, other neighbours are fine with us. but every time we go into the garden or out in the car they are watching us. We have never seen them smile. We are not nosey and go out of our way to not look in their direction in order to keep the peace. If I do something in the garden they copy. When she does the front garden and we are going out in the car she will stand with arms folded and try to stare us out. If we stop and go towards her she quickly dashes inside the house or around the corner.
Any ideas as to what is going on with this one? It's got me beat!

OP posts:
Cocolepew · 25/08/2017 15:28

They're just dickheads, no matter what you do it won't be right.
Ignore them but report the rat problem again.
If he comes round and starts shouting, shut the door in his face.
Stop trying to be polite to them, nothing you do or say will endear yourself to them.

MrsTrebus · 25/08/2017 17:38

I've just seen this post. We had similar issues. It's awful and all I can say is that when we moved, we sold to a very tough woman who took no crap at all! She was extremely aggressive to them, whist we'd remained civil. They moved out 6 month later and she now has nice neighbours that she gets on well with. The police were not at all helpful and just pacified the bullying neighbours.

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