Verbal abuse

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Does anyone else have a bf or hubby that talks to them badly? Doesn't listen and don't show any interest in you as a person any more?

How are you doing OP?

My dh sometimes does. He makes the excuse up it's how his voice is. I said I don't think so when you can talk to our dd and everyone else in a nice manner. I've told him I'm not putting up with it when we go on holiday, I can see it is his way of getting frustrated with something and speaking to me like that out of frustration, but I've had enough of it now and laying down the rules

He says he don't do the things I say and it's in my head but it's not , he goes funny and I see it I see the change

He's gaslighting you.

I know it's hard but once you're out of the relationship you will start to feel more positive.