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Am I being completely naive

36 replies

Jotobel3 · 19/07/2017 16:51

Please help any advise would help me get this terrible situation cleared up.

I recently used my DH laptop to check my email and because he had not logged out his e mail account opened. There in front of me was an email from a site called sex with no strings I clicked on it as was quite intrigued but to my horror a full profile with my husbands face popped up with all his credentials.

When I approached DH he told me that someone that he recentley had a falling out with must have put him on there to cause him trouble.

Pur - lease!! is this even possible for someone to just put another person on a site such as this?! I'm in turmoil i'm not computer savvy.

OP posts:
PaintingOwls · 19/07/2017 20:16

This must be a wind up.

GlitterSparkles17 · 19/07/2017 20:26

Ask your friends to search for him on Facebook he could be hiding a family, you could be the OW without even realising it.

PolarisStar · 19/07/2017 20:26

"Some" profiles show up if you google them, although some people turn this feature off (I have).

He may well of blocked you, if his profile isn't showing on google have a mate search for him.

AnyFucker · 19/07/2017 20:31

If you believe that you will believe anything

Are you staying with him ?

HarryBlackberry · 19/07/2017 20:38

I agree with others, call his bluff and say you'll call the police for him and see what happens.

Gemini69 · 19/07/2017 21:11

wow this guys a piece of work.... living the Single life online and quite possibly meeting up with randoms when he's out and about...

he sounds repulsive... sorry OP.. scare the hell out of him and tell him you've contacted the Police because there was so many personal and accurate details on there... it's a breach in the Communications Act .. and they're coming round in the morning to see the laptop x

Saiman · 19/07/2017 22:35

Yeah when you add in the other stuff, its even more clear he is a twat.

C0untDucku1a · 20/07/2017 07:04

Use a friend's fb account to search for him

Elledouble · 20/07/2017 07:17

Yeh, sorry - my ex husband did this sort of stuff too (although I didn't find out til after the fact). Take some time to process then start getting everything lined up to leave. Flowers

Adora10 · 20/07/2017 10:03

OFGS OP pick up your self esteem and tell him to fuck off as far as away as possible, he blocked his own wife on FB, hides his phone and is signing up to hook up sites, what more does he have to do to show you he's a cheating bastard?

I wouldn't even bother trying to get a friend to find him, you have more than enough evidence, he also seems to be mocking you.

user1486956786 · 20/07/2017 10:40

What adora said ^

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