I really need some advice please. Ive been with my oh for 16years..married 9. The past 6 months have been crap. He has told me he doesnt love me on numerous occasions because to cut a very long story short. Im very insecure and basically acuse him of doing stuff..moan if he glances at other women..im constantly scrutinising his every move and for no reason. He is an amazing dad to our 3kids, works hard for us. And ive really just pushed him so much he has had enough of me. He has been staying at a mates for 4 days now. I am dying. I really dont want to lose him, but he says he is done. Im such an idiot. 3 times in the past 6 months ive done something to fire up and him say he doesnt want this and he has stayed. Now he has gone and he really doesnt want me. Help!!