So after years of arguing DP moved out and we have been sharing contact with DCs. He says he can't live with me and listed the reasons, I'm devastated but he is willing to considered the possibility of working through things but only if I can accept my share of responsibility for the breakdown of the relationship. Finances have been separated and we are sort of on speaking terms but limited contact. He's been gone for about 4 months and says he doesn't want to date but if I do that's my choice.
I did end up going on a date which was ok and at the end he kissed me goodbye and not I feel really guilty as I'm not sure if I cheated bearingbin mind I didn't instigate anything or give any signals it was anything more than just having something to eat together.
I am all over the place and wonder if I should tell him?
Please please help my get my head around this. DP has never ever cheated or anything like that and I would never ever cheat but technically we are both single so I don't know if we do get back together it means I've cheated.