H with form for abusive behaviour is out and really drunk. Has a tendency to get aggressive when drunk. He is in a club somewhere and has been sending me abuse over text. I have really reached a limit tonight. DC and I are in the house, they're asleep and they have a really big day tomorrow.
I have locked the door so he can't get in. I keep wavering between feelings of guilt at locking him out, to wanting to feel safe and like he is not going to rampage in and make things hard for all of us.
We jointly own the house.
I am worried that he will shout and scream and bang drunkenly at the door so much when he gets back if it's locked that I'll feel forced to let him in.
What would be the best thing to do in these circumstances? I can't think straight.