Am I being totally messed about? Red flags?

[Givemechocolate40]

Being seeing a guy (mainly a fuck buddy) on and off for 3 months.

He isn't the type to commit to a relationship so just wants the above which I'm also happy with having just come out of a 14yr marriage. Problem is, even with this arrangement he is still messing me about.

He will only text when he wants to speak and if he doesn't he will go hours without answering my messages even though I know he's on his phone because his Watsapp is always online.

I am not allowed round his place either, will only come to mine for sex. I know he isn't married or in a relationship, but find this very strange.

I really like him and know this is very one sided as he just doesn't bother talking to me unless he's feeling horny.

But I guess that's How fuck buddies work? But still feel I'm being messed about.

No this isn't how FWB works, I've had many and they do involve actual friendship.

A fuckbuddy is different, the emphasis is just on sex and there's little communication or hanging out other than that.

If you're not happy with it how it is and it's not making you feel good then end it and find something more like FWB.

As i guy, even if my relationship with a lady was one mostly based on mutual sexual satisfaction, i would tret her with a lot more respect and decency than that. I would cut him off. If you just want a man for casual liasons, there are plenty more who are aware of common decency and courtesy.