child maintenance when re marry?

[aibu1983]

My ex has just rang me telling me he knows i am getting married this year. he has said he doesn't have to pay me as much child maintenance when i am married?

is this true? we have a family based agreement and he sees the kids for 3 hours every 6 weeks (his decision). i dont fully know if he has been paying me the correct amount as it is?

im really pissed off as i feel money is more important to him than the kids!

Surely it is his responsibility to pay for his kids and not my new partners?

If he re marries will that mean he has to pay more?

also i dont think he would just stop paying, we mix in the same circles and it wouldnt look good on him. Again ive told him he is welcome to go through csa but they dont take marriage into account.

id rather not have his money that have it go to court. its an embarrassment.

I wouldnt expect to gain from his new wifes wage (if he marries)

I could possibly understand if he had the kids more but he never has them.