Ive been with my partner 4 years engaged for 2 and I'm getting tired of his behaviour. He moans the house is a mess so I tidy it up for him to make it a mess again by leaving his clothes all over the place, leaving his dirty plates and cups around and not putting rubbish in the bin when the bin was right underneath. I tell him I dont clean for him to make a mess and he went once I work 40 hours a week (I only work 22.5 hours as I look after our son) then he'll actually be tidy. I'm at the end of my tether with him. I'm trying not to talk to him at the moment as I will snap.
Hes even saying now I'm not giving him no love (i.e massaging him cuddling him) but he was the one who came home from work, ignored me and his son went straight on his phone and put a film on. I got zero attention yet he wants all mine.