Hand hold please - think he has a girlfriend on Facebook

[Summershines]

Name changed for this as it could be outing

Been with DP two years. He's always told me he's very anti social media - he doesn't spend much time on his phone so I had no reason to doubt him (why would I anyway? )

Was on Facebook don't often use it, haven't posted for months and months - synced my contact list and it comes up with contacts who are on Facebook (with the option to add). To my surprise DP had a profile but I thought maybe it was just one he didn't use.

I clicked on it anyway and some of his posts were visible - he had a recent photo where a woman had commented 'my love ❤️'

I haven't looked much more yet. I feel sick. My heart is beating about ten times as fast as usual. I can't believe this is happening

I thought we were happy - barely argue. Went out for dinner Friday night and it was lovely. I'm so shocked so confused so hurt. Is there any way this cold be a misunderstanding??? I'm really trying to think of How it could be.

I feel so sick and anxious.

How bizarre... do you have mutual friends? If so are any of them friends with him on fb?

It might be possible that YOU are the other woman! Normally people have thier 'main' partner on Facebook and tell the secret partner that they don't have a profile. I would look on thier profiles and see how far back they go

How bizarre. No chance there's anyone else in the picture? Or she's a family member...?

Weird! Any mutual friends? Surely someone would've noticed something in such a public arena?

Good luck OP.

Do you live together? how often do you see each other? sorry OP he sounds like a right cockwomble.

Could it be a family member?

He hasn't mentioned to you that he has a Facebook account then?
When was it set up?
Hope you get this worked out op and he's not pissing about!!

Why don't you send her a message and ask her?

I think you need to look some more before you start jumping to conclusions based on one comment on one photo.

Check the date the photo was uploaded. Could it be an old profile and an ex? Definitely screenshot it and don't contact him to tell him that you know go give him time to make up an excuse.

Any update OP??

Why would you even think about asking him until you've actually read all of his history and hers?

Good luck - but I really hope you checked it all out first.

Hope you're ok, I know exactly how you're feeling, this is how I found out my ex was cheating.

Agree with @BrieAndChilli

Hope all is oki OP

This sounds like you're the OW (clearly unwittingly). How long have you been together?

I think you're the other woman I'm afraid. He may be married with kids. Search up her name and profile, her friends with his surname etc etc. Really sorry.

Or put his name here and we can all look him up for you

Just ask him.

Agree you need to do a bit of research.

Do you live together? Could you guess his facebook password?

It looks pretty damning to me so prepare yourself

Bit of Facebook stalking, get all your facts and evidence and then ask outright.

Any news OP? Hoping it's turned out to be nothing.

Hope al is OK

Can you check his email for messages from facebook?
Big hugs

Hope it turns out innocent :(