Just found out he's been fucking my best friend

[fellingdowntoday]

She won't reply to my messages he's gone and I'm raging

Oh, dear. Not good. Pair of assholes

Wow! I'm sorry op.

How did you find out??

Hope you're okay, op.

What a pair of bastards.

Jesus, sorry op. X

Don't send her any messages now. You know what she's like and she's not your friend.

I'm sorry. No one deserves that. Were uoi together long?

They deserve each other.

so clichéd -twats

I just replied on your other thread.

How awful for you, op. How did you find out?

So much for having a trial without the intention/ desire to see anyone else.

Big hugs to you. Don't do anything that could get you into trouble. This will be difficult for your DD too as she's friends with her daughter.

Shits the both of them. Sorry this has happened OP.

Hi OP
This happened to me with my first long term partner, of five years.
It's shit.
They fucked in my bed and violated my space.
It does get better
They're utter c**ts
Sending hugs

I'm sorry the pair of shits have done this to you. She's clearly no friend and he's not worth the space he takes.

Who is 'he'?

Husband, boyfriend, partner, fwb, neighbour, bloke down the chippy?

Jesus OP

Ouch. I'm so sorry. That's a barrel of shit.

Double betrayal

Happened to me to, took me ages to trust another friend.

Did get over it though....

You'll get past this but they will always know that they are cheaters. They can pretend otherwise, but they'll always know.

The best revenge is to get on and have a better life than you had before. Look after yourself, eat well, exercise, take up new hobbies, meet new people. Look back on this as your escape from pond scum.

you will get through this, and life will be good again.

Neither will be able to truly trust the other of course....
You have my sympathy sweetie, time will heal, hard as it seems right now.

They are as bad as each other. She is not a friend worthy of the title and he is not a husband worthy of you. Dump both of them. Get yourself sorted and move on with your life. Do not do anything rash - do not break things, destroy things or post photos etc - rise above them.
Good luck for the future.

Oh bloody hell im so sorry op. This is the stuff of nightmares. You'd do well to ditch them both, you don't need people like that in your life. Easier said than done I know.

Fuckers. You are the better person and they will never be able to trust each other. Be kind to yourself, look at protecting yourself financially and emotionally. Don't be embarrassed or ashamed, you have done nothing wrong.

Good fucking riddance. To both of them.