WWYD re friend

[MyheartbelongstoG]

My friend of 4 years recently cane over to mine for a drink and made a play for my boyfriend.

The three of us were having a drink and chatting. I'm not a drinker, had half a glass of wine. Friend on the other hand drinks a lot and was pissed.

I left the room for about twenty mins and when I came back in to the kitchen she said "another five mins and you would have caught us at it and I (she) would have been sliding up and down his cock".

She also asked him to go into the sitting room, he said no.

I know she finds him attractive.

I haven't really spoken to her since but this week she got some bad news and has reached out to me.

Would you just drop her or would you explain why?

Drop her. You dont owe her an explanation. Cant believe you even need to ask TBH

I think you need to talk to her and tell her why you are pissed off, it might have been the drink that cause her to behave in such a way, what's she like around him sober? I had a similar situation with a friend a few years ago, we were having drinks and I was chatting to her bf sat next to him on the end of the bed she was at the top of the bed, the next day she was in a funny mood with me, I asked her what her problem was and she said I was coming on to her bf ( I wasn't btw, I didn't even fancy him ) but we talked about it and she son saw that I was not trying to steal him away, bloody madness anyway as I was in a relationship.

excuse my terrible typos there.

Beyond, I'm asking because I'd like to know if its better to let her know why.

Me, I'm all for just dropping her and had until she reached out to me.

I'd tell her why.

Music, sober she is OK but I know she likes him.

When she arrived she was sober but was wearing his jumper within five mins.

Oh god, just drop. No explanation warranted. She can reach out elsewhere.
I'd be rethinking your boyfriend too for not removing himself from the situation.

Does your boyfriend have anything to say on the matter?

Not worried about my boyfriend in the slightest to be honest.

Where are her boundaries? I'd be having serious words with her and telling her this must never happen again or your friendship is over. Drink is not an excuse

Bebox, my boyfriend has only met her a handful of times. He said to drop her as that's not how a friend behaves and that she is dangerous.

Right, I would go cold with her, I would be pissed off at her putting my boyfriends jumper on too! if she was cold she could've asked you for a jacket or jumper, Even if she does fancy him, she should be respecting your friendship by staying away from him, it does sound like she is trying to make a play for him, which is just plain disrespectful.

Your boyfriend is right.

I would drop her immediately, regardless of her current circumstances. What did your boyfriend say when she made the comment about sliding up and down his cock? Was he flattered by her attentions? Or did he just dismiss it as drunken chatter?

Your boyfriend is right. Can I ask why she's reached out to you? Is it a ruse to get you back on side so she can make eyes at your man again?!

JK, she has no boundaries whatsoever. She is desperate to meet someone.

The first time she met my boyfriend we had invited her over for dinner and drinks and she sat next to him on the couch and linked arms with him, she then said something to him, can't remember what to which he replied "fuck off, I love my girlfriend".

We put that down to the drink but this time I just thought the cock comment was disgusting so now it's time to let her go.

Drop her! No explanation needed.

Drop her, she was way out of line.

when I said cold that meant drop btw,just to make that clear, this girl is trouble by the sounds of it, and will do what she can to break up your relationship, I've met enough people like her, she is reaching out to you for that exact reason that flumpy has said.

Music, the jumper thing pissed me off too. It's a little intimate I think or maybe I'm being childish. She wore his jumper before so maybe it was my fault for not pulling her up on it before.

Emma, my boyfriend said woah, wtf stop that.

She got some bad news so just wanted to talk about it.

She brought some food home with her which was just chicken drumsticks with veg and the next day she text him to say you have to give me that recipe!

OP, the more you have spoke bout her the worse she sounds, she is poisonous, and your boyfriend is right she is dangerous too... get rid, let her cry on someone else's shoulder.

Flumpy, I doubt its a ruse as she doesn't know she has been dropped.

I feel sorry for her but then again I don't as I don't give two fucks after what she did.

I hope she's not on mumsnet!!

Music, you're right, she is poisonous and she can fuck right off!

She might be mortified about her drunken pass, although it doesn't sound like it, if she's texted him asking for a recipe - for chicken drumsticks? FFS that's just an excuse to contact your boyfriend. If I were him, I'd block her number, and if I were you, I'd tell her she's seriously overstepped the mark and you no longer consider her to be a friend.