Told exes new gf that his son is here

[summerfling]

Admittedly I did it out of anger.

Angry because he's trying to hide the fact he has a child from his gf so as not to ruin his relationship with her even though he didn't meet her until well after I fell pregnant.

Of course, if there's a fall out, I won't know. She's hardly going to reply to me!

I also did it because he's changed his fucking number! Shows he's trying to get away from his responsibilities & it's not happening!

I'd like to think she'd be decent enough not to stand for the fact her bf has disowned his son but I won't bank on it.

He can crack on.

It's not harassment.

He's hardly a nice guy tho is he?

Congratulations on your new baby! Your ex sounds like a complete arse, so console yourself that you only have one baby to deal with. His new gf will find out what he is. Personally, I'd be massively put off a guy who said he wanted nothing to do with his child, but hey ho. Enjoy your son. Although I guess right now it seems like you have the shitty and of the stick, I promise you you havent. You have a lovely new baby and you are rid of one asshole. Again, congratulations!

momma nope not a nice guy. But for him to make the comment "I'll contact the police" shows that he is feeling harassed by OP and she's sent more than one message. And now she's messaging his OH. That can be viewed as harassment, especially if he's asked for no contact Shes continued too, he's then blocked her and she is finding other ways to message him.

Just leave him alone and wait for CMA to do their job.

He can view it as he likes.

This is about a baby he planned & wanted.

He's obviously just a psychopath.

I don't & never will want him back, I simply wanted everyone to know my son is here.

I used to feel like I had the shit end of the stick until he sent that message.

I'm glad I don't have to share my son!

sorry it has to be that way op

u dont know what he tol her though could have said it wasnt planned and u tricked him or anything

just have a good life with your son he doesnt need a father like that

If he has indeed told her, then I've no doubt he's told her that I trapped him.

I know for a fact he'd have said some shit about being told I was on the pill & whatever else.

I'm not surprised he doesn't want to know, I'm just surprised he's that much of a heartless wanker, that he wouldn't even acknowledge his own child.

But for him to make the comment "I'll contact the police" shows that he is feeling harassed by OP but not necessarily that the OP is harassing him. He may feel any contact about the child he planned and especially one that threatens his bubble is harassment because he shouldn't have to deal with this once HE'S decided to move on. People threaten lots of things and their threats aren't always justified. Of course none of us know except OP but he doesn't sound like he's above being a dick and threatening police just in the hope of scaring OP off

I contacted his gf, to tell her, her bfs child was now here.

It's not harassment,it's inconvenient to his relationship.

I know whatever he's told her is a complete lie, solely because he told me a complete bunch of crap about his ex gf!

He's a heartless wanker who has completely disowned his child in favour of his new relationship, he also doesn't want to know our son because he doesn't like me & knows if he wanted to see his son, he'd have to see me too!

OP you and yur lovely boy are better off without him. You said your son had a few problems, i hope he is doing ok and you are getting support elsewhere. Enjoy him and be glad he doesn't have that negativity in his life

Oh OP, how's the little one? Sounds like you are both better off without any contact with him.
It someways it can be easier if he doesn't want contact. You can go NC and move on with your life, make a future for you and DS.
I know how upsetting it is, but your little boy has you and right now that's all he needs.
Take care of both of you. Hold your head high.

Congratulations on your baby, as for your ex, sounds like you're well rid of him.

He had a few problems at birth, hospital classed him as "in poor condition", he had to go straight to NICU.

As for what my ex said, he's said it to get back at me because he's angry I've told her (he's childish like that), I'm just glad my son doesn't ever have to meet him!

Me knowing him was bad enough, having to expose my son to him would be worse