I've been seeing a guy for a few years, it's never really progressed that much due to various reasons even though we both wanted it to.
One of the main reasons I have been reluctant is because he works a crazy amount of hours and it's not an option to reduce those hours, well not to keep him. He is adamant that he needs to work that much to pay bills, mortgage etc.
We are never able to plan anything together, holidays are usually out the question.
I feel like I'm missing out on so much, I love him but I just want a normal relationship.
I've tried so many times to explain that my needs aren't being met and it's selfish to expect someone to wait around for you all the time. Am I being unfair? The way I see it is that is his priority.
How many of you ladies would settle for swing your man just a few hours a week?