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He's marrying the OW

86 replies

frieda909 · 05/04/2017 21:54

Just that really.

Haven't heard from my ex in over a year. We were together nearly ten years and he was an emotionally abusive shitbag for most of that time. I can't think of a single thing I miss about him and I kick myself every day for not getting out sooner.

Anyway, he texted me out of the blue this evening to 'just let me know' that he's getting married next month.

I didn't ask any questions but I can only assume the bride is the woman he cheated on me with, who he was 'officially' dating within weeks of our breakup. He always maintained that 'nothing happened' while we were still together, like he expects a fucking medal for being so virtuous. But even if nothing physical happened, she's the woman he was staying out until all hours with after work, conveniently 'forgetting' to mention that he was with me at the time ('it just never came up'... right Hmm) and frankly I really don't give a shit whether or not they happen to have slept together during that time. The betrayal was there either way.

Anyway. I don't know why I'm posting other than to get that little rant out of my system! I'm happy with a new partner now and know I shouldn't care what he gets up to. Just... is it too much to ask that he remain lonely and miserable while I enjoy my fabulous new life?!

OP posts:
Fanciedachange17 · 08/04/2017 21:45

kkkkaty Were we married to the same man? Was he a bigamist as well as a fool?

PyongyangKipperbang · 08/04/2017 21:46

They are something else arent they?

Feel free to rant, I dont think that the OP would mind, I certainly wouldnt if it was my thread. I posted a while ago a sort of open letter to the bitch wife, I know that they are bad form on here but I am fairly sure she is an MNer thanks to FB stalking, and it was so cathartic!

Fanciedachange17 · 08/04/2017 21:47

pyongy You've nailed it my psychic friend!

PyongyangKipperbang · 08/04/2017 21:52

:o

kkkkaty123 · 08/04/2017 21:58

Fancie I'm sure there is no other woman on the planet as stupid as me !
Please don't tell me there is more of him ?!

frieda909 · 08/04/2017 22:00

Rant away ladies! Grin It's cathartic isn't it?

OP posts:
Fanciedachange17 · 08/04/2017 22:15

No worries KKKkaty it's only me who is as "stupid" as you. I must have married the twin brother.
You alright girl? Because I sure am! And so are my beautiful. intelligent wonderful DC. (God I love 'em).

PyongyangKipperbang · 08/04/2017 22:21

There are so many "in" threads, the sweary ones, the drunk ones, the ones no one responds to ones. maybe we should start a "My ex is a cunt and today I just want to rant without starting a whole new discusion" one!

Thank you for your blessing freida!

PyongyangKipperbang · 08/04/2017 22:22

And maybe on that new thread I could spell the word Discussion!

kkkkaty123 · 08/04/2017 22:40

Yes thank you Frieda. Yes I'm all good now. Like I said i programmed myself to keep a dignified silence. But tonight I feels really good to let some out !! He went in a rampage to ruin me. Honestly the stuff that went on. Well sounds like you all have an idea roughly. I'm sad for my dc because they haven't got the dad they deserved. I blame myself for that too btw. Choices I made etc. But there is life after the crap they throw at you. Were prooof of that eh Flowers

kkkkaty123 · 08/04/2017 22:42

Apologise for late responses my bb is playing up

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