He is ringing the doorbell non stop. Should I call police?

[Proseccoisthenewlambrini]

I'm scared, should I call police?

[Proseccoisthenewlambrini]

Thank you ratbag , your post made me cry.
I think I really need support at the moment, this is so hard .

[Shayelle]

Have you got family op? Can you reach out to anyone today? for you xx

[FriendofBill]

Have you done the freedom programme?
You need it, look on line.

You could start feeling better day by day, if you are with him, you will always feel like this.

What can you do for yourself this Mother's Day, to make you feel good?
X

[lasttimeround]

I know you feel low and sad but just the facts of what happened shows this is not a decent relationship. You will be better off without this

[ptumbi]

As trib said:
told you to go fuck yourself

• walked off and left you
  
• tried to force himself into your taxi
  
• threatened to kick the door in
  
• waited outside your house, snatched your key and then locked you out
  
• called you to verbally abuse you whilst you were at your friend's house
  
• called you, rang the bell and knocked on the windows for the rest of the night once you had returned home.
  

and then, after drinking a shitload, he drove off in the car??

I'd have called the police for harassment, verbal assault and threats, and drink-driving.

[SandyY2K]

Is your husband always this agressive? I think for now it's best to keep some space between you.

I probably wouldn't appreciate my husband asking if I'd slept with a guy in similar circumstances, but his behaviour was disproportionate to the incident.

Was he drunk?

[Foxysoxy01]

Just because you want something to be a certain way doesn't mean it will be and wanting harder doesn't make it anymore likely to happen either.

You deserve to be treated well. You shouldn't ever have to beg or plead with another person. You are worth so much more than that man is ever going to be able to give you.

You need to work on your self esteem, self worth and confidence! There are lots of books on amazon pick one with good reviews and go from there.

Please get some space from this man and spend sometime working on you.

Things will get better OP but you have to make an effort and start being selfish for a while.

There is a better future for you with a new, kinder man or once you have actually worked on yourself you may be really happy with a future without any man at all