ah, i have a thread of precisely this nature in the aibu section. sympathies to you - i am in the middle of this except my dh had it first and now i have it. my dh is absolutely fine but guess who had the lie in yesterday and today? he's got a cough fgs.i've got nails being hammered into my head, a snotty nose AND a cough, but i'll have to do the majority of childcare and housework today. and i'll have to be oh so grateful for his small contribution.