Will try to keep this short as possible. Met exgf in October, moved in with her by December, I know it was a bit soon, and I was warned by friends this was the case. Agreed on an amount to cover all bills and expenses, and paid every week without fail.
She warned me just before I moved in she was bi-polar, which is fair enough, I have a family member who is bi-polar. I thought I'd be handle it, but how wrong I was!
Every little dis-agreement would turn into her getting un-believably abusive and stroppy. The first time was because I told her I wasn't happy about her telling her best friend neighbour everything about our relationship. The last argument which got totally out of control was about me paying yet again for a take away, when we agreed we would go halves. I also took her on holiday last minute with me, paying for the hotel and just asking her to pay for her flight.
She wasn't working for most of our 4 month relationship, I was doing early and late shifts. I would normally need a nap in the afternoon after coming home but this caused problems. It was ok for her getting up 6 hours later than me though.
I had enough and left, without my clothes and other belongings. We had another holiday booked, for next week, which she had paid some towards. To be able to get my clothes back she wanted her holiday money back ,and a weeks rent, which is fair enough so I paid and I collected my stuff, well most of it. She kept some back.
By the time I got back to my parents where I now have to live, she text me saying she was 6 weeks pregnant, sent me picture of test, and then a scan pic, which as I knew was her pregnant best friend neighbours scan. It had her name on it! She then rang up the holiday company to try and cancel the whole holiday but she couldn't as it was in my name.
She's been texting me for 3 weeks now, calling me mentally abusive and even threatened to call my work and get me sacked!
I just want her to stop this crap!