i think he got me pregnant on purpose

[SammieSalmon]

Im a single mum to a 13 month old hes the love of my life! I split with his dad just before i had him. Dont ask me why but a conversation with him about when/how i got pregnant whilst in the early stages. I remember him saying when he was behind me he took the condom off. We were on holiday and had been drinking. He was laughing but when i look back at the dates around that night was when i got pregnant

May be he is trying to mess with your head and even trying to jeopardise your relationship with your DC?

This happened to me too OP. I've never told anyone because, well , not many people believe men do this sort of thing, but they do. I'd never really thought of it as rape. I don't think he took the condom off with intent though, I think it came off and he carried on regardless and he failed to inform me at the time or afterwards. Anyway I'm way down the line and been a LP for 10 years, he's not involved but pays maintenance . Turns out it was the best thing to ever happen to me, I struggled massively at the start and it did affect my MH but these days I feel like Superwoman . I hope you find your peace with this whatever you decide to do.

Holed up xx glad it worked out well. Its possible Valentine he was very jealous of DS

There's been other threads on here recently about something (sex related) happening where the woman involved has then had doubts sewn in her mind about what really happened etc. It's really cruel and certainly not something to laugh about like your ex did. I hope he was laughing because he's made it up and has a horrible sense of humour rather than he's laughing at you because he tricked you on the night. Either way it's definitely not funny especially for the woman left wondering or violated

I'm very happy for you that you've got a son that you love so much although that's not the point

But I hope you can move on and be happy

Thank you. Ive been seeing someone new and its going well. I cant let my knobhead ex play on my mind

Wearing a condom and being on the pill arnt really comparable as wearing a condom protects you from sexual diseases being on the pill doesn't...
Its disgusting that he did that to you without your permission, I would say you are well shot of him op.

The HIV case was years ago, the law in relation to condoms has been changed more recently than that, I believe.

OP I'm sorry your ex was such a knob.

There have been more recent cases, some in the last two years, although only a few overall