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Why am I so stupid

29 replies

Croxlea · 18/02/2017 17:02

Bit long. I was not ver well yesterday I work from home same company as DH. I rarely take time off work as 1 DS (8) at home. Had a ver bad fever not being to get warm then overheating and feeling nauseous. I also had what I thought was thrush though not sure as it is horrific and I am nearly passing out when I pee. DS organized the dogs and cats etc DH managed to get some food for them. DH did not com up once to see how I was. During the night I fainted on the toilet and collapsed on the floor in the bathroom. One of the dogs woke me up. This morning I tried to get out of bed and just felt I was going to pass out. Got downstairs and laid on floor. DS told DH that needed to come down and see me. He said he'd get up in a little while. I managed to crawl into bed and asked him if h would go and get a cannestan combi. DH huffed and puffed and then said he has pulled a muscle in his arm. He came back gave it to me and said hurry up he needed the bathroom. (We have bloody 3). He then laid on the sofa for the rest of the day and I have had to try and entertain my DS while feeling really poorly. He came up to see me at 4.30pm 7 hours later not once did he ask how I was just went on about his arm. I am not sure I have thrush as the pain is not subsiding my whole body aches and I still have a fever. I think I might call NHS 111 what if it is something else I am really scared I have no family left at all so no mum and dad to go to.

OP posts:
6demandingchildren · 21/03/2017 12:47

I'm one of those people who would never say ltb as i always would like a happy ending.
But this is my first LTB, you are worth so much more than this

category12 · 21/03/2017 13:53

Sometimes leaving the bastard IS the happy ending.

Introvertedbuthappy · 21/03/2017 14:01

Wow, what a absolute bastard, and I was thinking that before I read your update. Even if it was someone I disliked who had passed out I would seek medical attention for them and check they were ok. The fact that he was the cause of your sickness and has given you two STIs says it all.
So sorry OP, onwards and upwards FlowersCakeBrew

hellsbellsmelons · 21/03/2017 14:15

He probably gave you both STI's at the same time.
What an absolute cunt (and I don't use that word lightly)
It's gonna be tough to face but you know what you need to do.
Get your strength back and get him kicked out.
You've just moved as well.
This must be so so stressful for you.
Keep ranting on here!

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