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Can you report this to police, repeated poking?

You sit down, they poke you with their first finger, hard, in the side, keep doing it even though you say not to?

I guess not it doesnt. Sound that bad now I've written it down. But it hurts.

The door incident won't have been completely accidental. Is your porch door secure enough?

Be aware that his usual 'style' is getting a different reaction so he'll need to change from that style to get from you the reaction he's been used to.

Agree with Joysmum

I never thought my stbxh could pin me to the floor trying to grapple my phone off me. You only know him up til now. When he sees his normal shit not working it could get alot worse.

Stay safe

Oh OP ! Please take on imperial's advice

Is there definitely no friends near by or a friend you can trust?

I'd ring or contact women's aid, and get this logged with the police so they have it on the system. You say you know him; but I just have a horrible gut feeling this will escalate
Please let someone know and keep safe

What an absolute bully! You don't deserve that! I'm sorry I can't be of anymore help

Also I don't think anyone would use ilove's approach! I don't think jabbing anyone with a fork in this situation is going to sort things, and what a terribly stupid thing to suggest

• friend or neighbour near by you could trust, ignore the double friend x

Sounds really sinister, the poking and nasty smiling.

Are you ok?

Hope you're ok op. Please call Women's Aid and have a chat with them about your relationship. They should help you to see that your reactions to his treatment of you are completely normal. He's abusive and this is when he'll be at his most dangerous. Please seek support in RL too. I know you say you don't have anyone but is there not a friend or family member you could speak to? Even a neighbour or colleague? We often find support in unexpected places

next time you are cooking, ask for his help, grab his wrist, and calmly ..

CUT HIS FUCKING FINGER OFF.

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If its affectionate and you find it funny..its om...if he's like the twat kid at school who then cries when ypu react and gets teacher in to suspend you...then he's a weirdo bpumdary stepping bully..or he's flipped and needs CSN round..

Bloody heck OP. He's sounds unstable actually. Please don't let him back in now he's out. When you said poking with a nasty smile, that scared me.

Hugs

breaking stuff is violence. suspect the door was not an accident.

agree with relling police..its puts a marker on calls from or relating to the address and number
..useful if you call in for something you think is low cincerm because t heyll make the judgement not you ..