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Original poster

I am evil

94 replies

RainbowCrash4321 · 29/12/2016 17:01

I'm watching my daughter and partner playing together and it's so beautiful. I've been cheating on him for nearly two years.

OP posts:
lorelairoryemily · 29/12/2016 21:13

What a self indulgent idiot. Whether male or female op you are a gobshite

Badcat666 · 29/12/2016 21:16

There you go Op.. have a lie down and tell us about your childhood...

CrazyDuchess · 29/12/2016 21:21
Hmm
GutInstinct · 29/12/2016 21:22

Are you a journalist per chance?

Shockers · 29/12/2016 21:32

I'd be inclined to go with my GutInstinct on this one Wink.

Godotsarrived · 29/12/2016 21:34

Why did the affair start? What was making you so unhappy that you needed to find solace in this way? You are not evil, you are unhappy. That can make us do stupid things. Look after yourself as well as worrying about the other people involved... and make sure whatever happens, you protect your child.

Best of luck,

PigletWasPoohsFriend · 29/12/2016 21:35

This is a man.

Because women never have affairs do they Hmm

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YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 29/12/2016 21:35

Evening folks. While we really do understand this thread is upsetting for many of you, we must remind everyone that the usual Talk Guidelines still apply.

Didyoumeantobesorude1 · 29/12/2016 21:58

Have you ever been really happy with your partner? Sometimes people stay in relationships that aren't really happy and they have children and that makes it even harder to leave. You have been honest on this thread, now start being honest with yourself. If your relationship is worth saving you can do so, if you really want to. But do you really want to?

clumsyduck · 29/12/2016 22:02

Evil is a tad dramatic
If this isn't a wind up then you know you could end the affair or end your relationship and live a more honest life .
2 years ?!?

MyWineTime · 29/12/2016 22:25

I have no doubt that you will treat the comments you are inviting on this thread as punishment enough for you to feel justified in shagging your bit on the side some more.

sweetbabboo · 30/12/2016 01:19

oh shag away dear, you'll get your day.

Isyss · 30/12/2016 02:00

Youre not evil but youre selfish. You need to question yourself on why you are cheating, what is missing in your life?

jeaux90 · 30/12/2016 09:23

OP are you in love with the affair partner?
Has your marriage run its course but you just don't have the balls to be honest and end it?

What is your ideal future? If you fast forward by 2 years what does your life look like?

Bunkai · 30/12/2016 11:23
Shockers · 30/12/2016 11:38

She/he has left the building, it would appear.

Shockers · 30/12/2016 11:41

I'm still a bit HmmShockConfused about someone sitting in the same room as their partner and child and starting a mn thread about their (enjoyable) affair.

questsabelletreetop · 26/08/2017 20:37

Just found this old thread. Wondering what you decided to do OP?

SomeBerryJam · 27/08/2017 11:02

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