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How much sex?

76 replies

Chokehold · 23/12/2016 20:18

How much would you like and your partner?

How much do you get?

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Twice a day (me), thrice a week (him).

Thrice a week.

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KinkyAfro · 23/12/2016 20:26

So the third time you don't want to?

user1473914879 · 23/12/2016 20:27

What luxury ..

Bluntness100 · 23/12/2016 20:28

How long have you been together? Twice a day is quite a lot and would indicate to me you either have an abnormally high sex drive, are needy and feel sex shows he wants you or are missing something in the relationship which stops you doing other things together.

peppatax · 23/12/2016 20:29

Think you've misread that Kinky as there is a timeframe difference there!

Chokehold · 23/12/2016 20:29

Kinky no I want it twice a day

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Chokehold · 23/12/2016 20:32

Bluntness a year, but yes my sex drive is high, I have never been matched really - one guy done it every time I wanted to (I didn't force it though) but he just went through the motions

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MonkeyBrainsInPickle · 23/12/2016 20:32

Three times a week is loads.

peppatax · 23/12/2016 20:33

I'd happily go for twice a day too OP - can't explain why but just how it goes. When DP is around he happily joins in with that and I am fine without it when he is not around whole other thread

Chokehold · 23/12/2016 20:34

Monkey what?? Really??

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Chokehold · 23/12/2016 20:37

Peppatax have you always been this way? Would you say we have a high sex drive?

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MonkeyBrainsInPickle · 23/12/2016 20:38

Yes, lots of couples have less sex the that. Surely how much you fancy it changes anyway, depending on how tired you are, what's going on in your life etc. I'm not sure how I'd find time for twice a day with DC and a job.

SleepingTiger · 23/12/2016 20:40

Don't write a book OP
It would not be very exciting.

Chokehold · 23/12/2016 20:43

Sleeping why do you say that? If it was a sex book it would

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dotdash · 23/12/2016 20:47

Twice a year is ample.

BreatheDeep · 23/12/2016 20:49

How do you have time for twice a day?!

foxesandtoadstools · 23/12/2016 20:50

Twice a year?!?!

God.

Forgettheworld · 23/12/2016 20:50

I've been with my DP almost 3 years we have it about 3/4 times a week. I'd have it
a lot more but with a 4 year old DS and both working we don't get the chance.
Do you live together?

peppatax · 23/12/2016 20:57

Twice a day? I'd say high - always had it too (the drive, not the activity) and in fact I've probably got more drive as I've got older.

Its easy really - once in the morning, once at bedtime or twice in one sitting if home alone Wink

Chokehold · 23/12/2016 21:08

Peppatax we're on the same page!! That's it once when you wake, once before you sleep. More if there's energy!! I wouldn't knock back 4 times but life gets in the way of that amount most of the time so tried to be realistic. Been together a year.

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Chokehold · 23/12/2016 21:10

Dotdash are you kidding me? Oh man maybe I'm suffering from some sex disorder!

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peppatax · 23/12/2016 21:14

Well, I don't personally see how people have time or the inclination to do other things daily but horses for courses I suppose! I'm very much a one man band though - if it's not my partner then I'm not interested.

Chokehold · 23/12/2016 21:15

How long have you been together? Have you felt like that in every relationship?

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TheNaze73 · 23/12/2016 21:32

You aren't suffering from a sex disorder. Between 3-5 times per week for me, so kind of average

Cat2014 · 23/12/2016 21:37

Twice to three times a day when we are together which is 3 days a weekBlush
Been together 6 months

peppatax · 23/12/2016 21:41

Been together 18 months or thereabouts and has always been the same. Ironically, it feels like it's the only part of the relationship that we're on the same page sometimes! I've felt like it in every relationship but especially so now, others haven't necessarily been able to 'keep up' Blush

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