So MrGotAway has been back in touch.

[catinbooots]

It's been ten years. He is a proper player. I am in the middle of a horrendous divorce.

Please just tell me NO NO NO NO NO

lol double post

If you are free and single why not play him at his own game?

Yes he is free and single. He deffo won't be looking for anything.

I am a bit fragile at the moment. Couldn't take the heartbreak.

Then dont contact him.

You know what he's like so just steer clear.Or string him along to amuse us yourself.
What's he said?
Looks like he's all alone for Xmas....poor him

Cat, fallen and i have said basically the same thing, so i only see two options for you really.

Protect yourself and do not get in touch or make yourself even remotely available to a player.

Seriously, are you looking to get hurt? Avoid. Avoid and avoid.

He has said he has been thinking about me for 10 years

He is in a new job in a new city and obvs feeling a bit lonely. I would have carved out my kidney for him a decade ago.

Just shit timing with the split from DH.

Like hell he has what utter shite.
Both of us know that if he had wanted to be with you over all those years then he would have moved heaven & earth to do so.
I guess the reason for the split was his cheating?

Only you can decide what you do here.

He's bored & after a fuck & you know that.

Ruuunnnn! Run like the wind.

Eloquently put by TheNaze
Has he heard about your divorce? His type like to prey on vulnerable women trust me I'm divorced myself & found that it renewed a certain person's interest.

NO NO NO NO NO

NO NO NO NO NO

NO NO NO NO NO

catinbooots He is a proper player.

(Sung to tune of Glooooooooria Hosanna in Excelcis)

I actually fucking love you lot

Definitely NO. The book it is called a break up 'cause it's broken might be helpful.

No run away, block him, delete his number etc etc

Maybe look at it another way IF you can deal with it , play the player back and have some fun ...just don't got overly involved .

What's the plan now Cat ?

Don't reply, it's easy to have the intention of playing him at his own game but then developing feelings & getting your heart broken again.

RUN AWWWWAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY
RUUUNNNNNNNNNNN FAAAAAAAAASSSSSTEEERRRRRRRRRRR

honestly, even if he wasn't a player, this is awful timing - don't hook up with anyone for any reason til your head is straighter.

Big hugs and please look after yourself. AND do not reply! Block block block

Run run run run run away.... a very long way. Block. Delete. Have a lobotomy. If necessary assume a new identity.

Better call Saul.

no no no no no

ESPECIALLY when you're fragile.