I have n c'd for this. I was single for 3 years after my divorce - I'm 54. I met a man 3 months ago who is quite unlike my xh. He is caring, thoughtful, loving, everything you want in a man. We took things very slowly and only got intimate a month ago and things are good in that department. He is the same age.
I was on fb today and wondered if he was on there so searched for him as I was going to friend request. There was a profile with only his photo and no other posting. However, at the bottom of the photo was a web address. I innocently thought this was the address of his employers. (I know what he does for a living but he has never actually mentioned the name of his employer). I looked them up and it turns out the web site is a gay dating site! What do I do now? Ask him - how? Im not due to see him until Friday night - do I wait til I see him? Could there be an innocent explanation?