i had sex with my husbands twin :(

[mangamummy]

sounds like something from take a break doesnt it

it was last christmas and we all went to a villa in france, DH and his brother and father stayed up playing some japenese drinking game, and i went to bed early - but had had my fair share of a bottle of potent red wine.

a few hours later (who i thought was) DH came in woke me up, was toatlly pissed and we started kissing ect, i sensed something was completly wrong, and when i got my senses back realised it was BIL, but went ahead anyways

after he went back down stairs - and i drifted back off to sleep

anyways the next day all three of them were asleep downstairs and the day continues as normal

when i woke up the next day i was in shock, i went to the toilet and was sick, i told DH i was ill and we went home early,

ive seen BIL 4 times since and havent said anything to him about it

should i bring it up?? or tell DH??

LOL Northerner.

Its just that, if someone has nothing better to do than string a load of concerned parents along under one guise or another, then thats a worry, dont you think?

Im sorry thats as much sympathy as I can muster

maybe our definition of troll is different.

A troll isnt necessarily an unknown. Its someone under a new/changed name that is posting to deliberately cause trouble/provoke.

A worry for who QV? Doesn't worry me one iota.

Just don't neccasarily think she need's help. Could just be a young girl who started having a laugh. She thought it was funny and it escalated.

Or she's a loony. If she is a loony then I suggest she probably always has been and always will be.

Attention seeking behaviour is bad in a 3yr old but in an Adult it's simply pathetic in my opinion!

I agree with Northener, the good nature of mnetters is the oxygen of trolls. Who actually knows if this person is who she pertains to be? Married? Not Married? Shagged her BIL knowingly? Diddn't know what she was doing? Depressed? Possibly but probably not? Laughing at us? Almost definitely. Deserving of our sympathy? I don't think so.

see , i think that a lot of what she has posted has been under her own name, and genuine...i think that this particular thread was a genuine f*ck up, that she was messing around, maybe for attention, but i just don;t know.

i have clashed with her on a few of her threads, i think she is a bundle of contradictions, and immaturity.

unless she is totally and utterly a troll ,and all she has posted has been for provocation

i donlt think she has shagged her BIL

goes against everything that she has ever said. i think this was a 'joke' gone wrong

My feeling is that if she does need help it is of a kind that any internet site is unable to provide. If she's for real then she does not need some illusion of support - she needs to get it physically, from the proper services. (That is not putting down the many people who do help each other on here,btw, I just think that every now and again people pop up who need far more.) If she is genuine, I wouldn't be surprised if an abuse thread crops up sooner or later.

If you're a troll, then wow - kudos - you've abused the kindness and good intentions of people who are trying to create a support network - what a filibuster you are.

Either way, I really thinking ignoring is best.

Northerner...I did say that it was all the sympathy I could muster

Seriously though, I dont feel sorry for her. I have been sat here thinking I should, but, I just cant. Which bothers me slightly as someone who has suffered depression. I mean, whatever her reasons, she just not right in the head, is she? Yet I just dont feel able to empathise with her at all.

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Decisions decisions

or.....?

snort vvqv

You'd notice, wouldnt you

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Oh fgs lockets links please

Does anyone in RL know her? Should we CAT her/MSN her/visit her house with some home cooked organic food? I'll start a whip round...

Purlease.......

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OOh lockets are you sure it's not his twin?

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