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Ok....Have made my dh a "video" for valentines...

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bitrude · 13/02/2007 18:53

I'm a regular...but I'm a tad

I decided to make a home video...for dh, for valentines day...I had a shower...did my hair..shaved my fanjo...put some sexy undies on (and then took them off!) And let the camcorder roll!!!

Do you think he'll like it...or will he be a bit shocked!???

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DetentionGrrrl · 13/02/2007 18:55

i don't know, i don't know him!

I'd imagine he'd like it- shows a bit of rudeness and imagination. If it doesn't get him going, perhaps nothing will!

itsmeNDP · 13/02/2007 18:57

I dunno, I have never met your H so it's fairly impossible to say !

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bitrude · 13/02/2007 18:58

He likes a bit of porn...and he has gone on about similare things in the past...so I thought...right well boost our love life..and he can watch me...not some other woman!

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bitrude · 13/02/2007 19:00

I know you don't know him...sorry...I just mean...on a whole...for valentines...

GUYS>>>> would you like it if your DW did the same??

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ImaWurzel · 13/02/2007 19:01

I'd like to do something like that for my DH,but wouldn't feel confident in front of the camera, now if i was slim and all then i would do it. Not that i'm big big. 14-16 but more of 17!

DizzyBint · 13/02/2007 19:01

i just asked dh, he said he would laugh his head off.

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bitrude · 13/02/2007 19:03

oh god...I don't want him to laugh!! ....oooohhhh nooooooooo

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Mycupoverrunswithlove · 13/02/2007 19:04

I'm sure he will like it, I think its a sweet idea, and very daring. I could never do anything like that. I am sure that you know your dh well enough to know that he will be chuffed.

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bitrude · 13/02/2007 19:06

I think he'll be chuffed...or at least I hope so...but since kids...its a bit out of character that's all...I have been wanting to spice things up but didn't know where to start...

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Mycupoverrunswithlove · 13/02/2007 19:08

I think he will admire your guts to do. The guy who said he would laugh, well that would probably crush his dw/dp He probably said that, because it would be totally outside of what their relationship is about.

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bitrude · 13/02/2007 19:09

Imawurzel.....I'm a size 14..and have been very worried since having kids that bits hang out etc etc, but It was actually quite good fun and I forgot i was recording!!

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DizzyBint · 13/02/2007 19:10

it wouldn't crush me at all. i wouldn't do something like that, i'd be laughing myself trying to do it.

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bitrude · 13/02/2007 19:11

Thanks for the encouragement!
I'm gonna wrap the tape up and give it him with a card....not sure I want to watch it too...but at least he will have it next time I have an early night without him!!!

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Quootiepie · 13/02/2007 19:14

I think that's a nice idea, I know DH would love similar (with me, not you!) but I am waaaaaaay to tired tonight to go through the rigmarole! Well done you

jollymum · 13/02/2007 19:15

I think if you want to do it, great, you've gots guts and love your DH totally. It took a lot of guts to do it and I'm sure he'll appreciate it totally

BUT I hope all those that took the p out of Kitty are reading. Bit of a laugh, love the one you're with, same sentiments.......BTW I think MN is going down the pan with all the swearing, think it should be bleeped or you're out. NO need for fing and blinding..bleep it out especially on the titles.

BTW .....BITRUDE.. I think you're a lovely lady, very caring and I hope he loves it..How are you going to keep a straight face until the "big reveal"?

themildmanneredjanitor · 13/02/2007 19:17

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Kevlarhead · 13/02/2007 19:22

BLOKE

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bitrude; I wouldn't worry.

jollymum · 13/02/2007 19:24

The principle is the same, someone wants to do something and everyone tells her it's OK. What if a MN thinks porn is evil and dsigusting? Or that this kind of thing is wrong? I think she has every right to do what she wants and so has Kitty and I think there's a fine line between judging the two wwomen. Both asked for opinions and both got them. One goes away feeling OK and the other feels like poo(note no swearing!) Each to his own and why the h''l won't my video camera work, where are my razors (oh, yeah the 16/14yrs old have them) and I know for a fact my DH would snigger. I hope everyone has a great Valentines day/night.

DimpledThighs · 13/02/2007 19:25

he'll love it.

jollymum · 13/02/2007 19:27

Bitrude, can I just say that you are a lovely wife. You have thought about him, had a bit of fun, worked hard to get him something sooo personal and he is a lucky man. I hope you have a lovely time and that he appreciates the effort you have made. Maybe he could do one for you?

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bitrude · 13/02/2007 19:28

oohhh.....I have clearly missed something...really didn't mean to cause any controversy...sorry...I'll get off now.

[Thanks all, I have no idea really what will happen after giving it him, haven't really thought that far!!!]

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bitrude · 13/02/2007 19:29

Thank you Jollymum

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Carmenere · 13/02/2007 19:36

Jollymum this is not the same thing at all. This is a private gift from a woman to her partner, very nice if you are into that sort of thing.
Kitty wanted to/wants to subject her wedding guests to the excruciating display of herself in a sexy outfit. Not nice.

jollymum · 13/02/2007 19:38

You haven't caused anything, I wish I'd thought of it. I think your DH's ears must be burning by now and I for one will be hoping the video has a great effect. Lucky bugger he is. What a lovely lady! I have bought a card and chocs that say I (heart) you. By tomorrow it nay say something different as I have a choc craving and know ehere they are.

NotQuiteCockney · 13/02/2007 19:38

I agree with Carmenere. This is something private, that's staying private. The wedding dance thing was another sort of idea altogether.

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