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Choose me?

78 replies

thewinterqueen · 21/10/2016 00:51

Help! I need advice!

Three months ago, I met a guy and we hit it off straight away. We get on fantastically and have a lot in common, but there's one problem - he's in a relationship. He owns a house with this girl and has been in a 9 month relationship with her, despite claiming it's a broken relationship and they don't have sex. He claims that he loves us both now, and cannot break up with other girlfriend because there's 'still something there.' He moved out of her house and has been doing on dates with her, whilst coming to mine most days and sleeping with me. Whenever I ask what's going on, he gets stressed and cries. It's hideously frustrating and I'm starting to wonder why I'm bothering :/

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Pluto30 · 30/10/2016 04:28

Just saw your latest post, well done for having the courage to break it off with him. Leave him to sort out his own mess, and you just deal with yours.

Montane50 · 30/10/2016 08:28

Glad you've finally seen sense, now comes the hard part: sticking to your guns.
Re your ptsd and being annoyed about people being nasty? You cant expect sympathy when you are doing something wrong, and more so when you drip feed.
Stay strong, ignore his attempts to change your mind, and start to get some self esteem with a few morales thrown in.

OliviaStabler · 30/10/2016 08:28

Well done you Flowers

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