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First date and guy is snapping selfies of us

28 replies

starboyz · 18/10/2016 20:44

Is this creepy? I felt really uncomfortable.
We went to the ice bar in london and whilst at the bar he was taking selfies, I did not look at the camera so it looked like I was just next to him and one I had my hand up to my face.
I am kind of annoyed he has photos of me, I dont even know this guy.

Also I spoke to him earlier and told him I couldnt come out for our second date and he asked to come to my house, I felt this is disrespectful.
I told him i dont know you for you to come to my house and he said how he does ect and I sternly said no.

Really off putting. What do you think?

My friend said i should go out with him again just to ask him to delete the photos and see him do it infront of me.

OP posts:
HotNatured · 19/10/2016 11:25

The selfies thing is bizarre, but for insisting that he comes to your home for the second date I would run a mile.

gingina · 19/10/2016 11:30

Unless you were naked in the ice bar (which would have been weird and cold) I can't see why you are bothered of him taking photos of you.
But nevertheless you felt uncomfortable and he has been pushy wanting to come to your house so you are totally within your rights to give him the heave ho.

adora1 · 19/10/2016 12:46

He's in an ice bar, not a normal bar, I'd take pics too, don't see the big deal.

The wanting to come to your house is really cheeky but tbh, what's the issue here, don't see if you don't want to.

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