Ok, so me and my do have been together for over a year and live together now. I do not have a issue at all with masturbation or the watching of porn. However, due to how we got together ( started very casual, he initially was more interested in someone else but we were constantly drawn together) and his inmate lack of any kind of compliments I have begun to suffer a lack of confidence. Most of which I realise is more down to me rather than him. He is literally the nicest person in the world and would never in a milliOn years do anything intentional to upset me. And is usually devestated when he realises he has.
Thing is, I just found out that he has been watching ( and masturbating to) porn and its the ' real person' kind such as live webcams and ametuer stuff. And thIs has literally shaken me to my core. I feel so undesirable and inadequate. And I know it's normal etc etc because it wouldn't normally bother me.
I guess I just really need some one to tell me it's ok??? He's not gonna leave me for the next female who comes along just because he occasional watches this stuff