and what would you do in the situation? Its a bit of a long one....
My husband and I have a friend who we have known since school...about 15 years.
Early last year he started seeing a girl and as it was his first proper girlfriend,he slept with her and got her pregnant.She then broke it off with him and they just talked occasionally.
He wasnt told the baby was born till a week after and that was by her sister and he wasnt allowed to see the child.The girls mother even said it wasnt his.
Then our problems started.....
My mum askd the girl how the baby was and if our friend would get to see it and she was told no.The same night,her mother went round to our friend and said my mum should stop harassing the girl.So then my mum didnt say a word to her.
What happened then was that the girl ripped the wipers off my car,broke my wing mirror and broke the front room window of my parents house with them.3 nights in one week she broke windows in the house.
She was caught by my brother and the police were involved.They arrested and cautoned her.
So we later found out from our friend that she did all this to us because she thinks the baby Im carrying is our friends.We have hardly spoken to her,my husband is nver away from my side and I only go round our friends to see his mother.So the week after she was arrested,she shouted abuse at us at the bus stop in front of everyone saying that the baby was our friends and my husband told her it wasnt.She then went to my mums place of work and shouted abuse at her.
Our dilemma finally....
My baby is due within a month and we just found out that our friend is startng to see this girl again.I dont want him to see my baby as I feel its a total disrespect to us and our baby that hes seeing her again.He has said nothing to her about what she said and standing up for us.Its like it was alright for her to air her views about my baby in front of everyone.We werent even allowed to tell his mother what happened as he thought it would upset her.
So I dont know what to do? My husband has said that if they do get back together,thats the end of our friendship but I just dont want him seeing my baby now.