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Toast3 · 09/09/2016 14:51

I have a friend. About year ago she went through a very messy divorce. Her husband had an affair and left her. She was devastated.
Since he left, she has confided in me about how he bullied her (verbally and physically) he was (still is) and absolute control freak.
They are going throgh the process of seperateing finances which has proved very difficult as they also run a business together... She is completely terrified of him and he does lots of little things to undermine and scare her...
They have a pending court case coming up - all very messy!
Anyway, she firmly believes that he is tapping her phone...
Does anyone have any experience, or know anything about how this is possible?
She has changed her passwords on her social media accounts and email etc but still he finds out things about her...I do agree with her it is all a bit too much to be a coincidence...

If he had somehow bugged her phone (an iPhone) all he would need would be her pin and he would have access to everything wouldn't he as all her open apps are in there?

How would he tap her phone though? Would he have to have actually physically have had hold of it?

Any wise words very welcome?

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RedMapleLeaf · 12/09/2016 09:15

I think that the problem is if the phone has an account that is linked to any other devices (e.g. apple id, google account etc).

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