Would this bother you?

[Bisquit]

DH and I got talking last night about sex and got onto the topic of masterbation.

We both regularly masterbate which doesn't affect our sex life but he admitted last night that whilst he is attracted to me he thinks about scenarios with other women during masterbation, never women he knows personally, women that are way out of reach.

Would this bother you? I didn't know what to think when he was saying this as I don't think about anyone, I'm a more visual person so I'm just wondering whether this is a normal thing for men?

OxyThroatSkin I can't remember to be honest. It was years ago. Could've been!

I remember being a bit shocked though as I can't imagine ever thinking of my colleagues in that way. (well, most of them anyway).

I don't fantasise, I'm a very visual person so I watch porn and always have done. I'm not thinking about anything whilst watching it like imagining it was me or something like that, it just works for me to watch IYSWIM?

I understand that more yes. Its like the act is sexy enough in itself.

Not even vaguely, no. I'd think he lacked imagination if he only ever thought of me when he cracked one off. I certainly don't just think of him.

Jeez I am insane

I don't fantasise....ever. Alone or with DH. I watch porn but never think of other people I genuinely didn't realise so many people did. Creeps me out a bit actually. Hope no one's ever thought of me, makes me feel a bit violated 😂