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Sex 17 years in. How often how good and how long?

39 replies

Wrinklesandspotstoo · 28/08/2016 21:05

Just that really.....

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Ginkypig · 29/08/2016 23:38

rose Because Iv nothing to be ashamed of as you know it's a normal healthy part of life and relationships

I don't see it as any different to sharing details of my diet or washing habits etc.

TheLastRoseOfSummer · 30/08/2016 01:10

Except that some people get off on others sharing intimate details of their sex life.

TheLastRoseOfSummer · 30/08/2016 01:11

And other people also appear to consider it to be a bit dodgy given how few replies their are and how happy most people are to discuss their sex lives on this board! Grin

uhoh2016 · 30/08/2016 02:51

16 years 3dc (1 of which is always in our bed ) with 3 dc and him often working away it can get 6-8 weeks. Quality over quantity though I'm not a "pull my nightie down when you've finished" woman I'd rather not bother

headinhands · 30/08/2016 10:01

I just can't imagine there's some sweaty guy in Luton jacking off at his laptop all because he's found out that some married people have sex by reading this thread. With a couple of clicks he could be fapping to free hardcore porn.

BiddyPop · 30/08/2016 10:10

21 years - still very regularly, enjoyable, sometimes quicker, sometimes more extended but we're happy as we are

JasperDamerel · 30/08/2016 10:17

22 years. Quantity has gone down with time, but quality has gone up.

Ginkypig · 30/08/2016 15:58

I haven't shared anything in my opinion that would get anyone off. I have not disclosed a single sex act.

Groovee · 30/08/2016 16:01

Together 19 years married for nearly 18.

Sex is mainly once a week, lucky if we get more. 2 teens who shoot through the minute the heat our bed squeak. On holiday where we had a non squeaking bed it was 4 times.

We often hug and kiss. Sex is important too and we both miss it.

MaQueen · 30/08/2016 17:17

25 years. On average 3-4 times a week, still (though on holiday it's more like 1-2 a day). Ranges from Okay to Oh. My. God.

Doesn't last particularly long, but it doesn't need to as DH knows exactly what he's doing (I trained him well).

WamBamThankYouMaam · 30/08/2016 19:36

14 years and once a month or so (medical reasons)

We're very close though and affectionate day to day.

FeedMeAndTellMeImPretty · 30/08/2016 19:49

Groovee buy a new bed!

Groovee · 30/08/2016 19:55

It's not the bed it's the floorboards!

headinhands · 30/08/2016 22:36

Move your room around so your bed is at right angles to how it is now, and put a lock on your door!

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