Some advice please.
A ‘friend’ of mine is having HUGE troubles finding a girlfriend. He’s 43 and has literally never even had a cheeky snog.
The advice I’m looking for is – how do I tell him that he comes across as a creep the minutes he meets ANY woman? If I introduce him to a female friend and she even so much as smiles at him or takes a mild interest in small talking with him he falls in love, gets all heavy and then starts to persue them. He can’t just have a good time, he will instantly change and start making (really pathetic) moves. It’s as though he thinks women are a different species.
I’ve called him a friend here, but he’s more friend of a friend – I don’t really like the fella, I’m just sick of him ruining nights out gettign all stroppy because I’m able to talk to women as humans and he isn’t. He always asks me how to pull but I haven’t the heart to tell him he’s a bit creepy, only about 4ft tall and looks a lot like a spotty version of Frankie Boyle with a penchant for incredibly attractive women that most likely wouldn’t look at him twice. I know it sounds harsh…but it’s true. He always gets annoyed with me if I talk to the women he’s fixated with, as if I’m trying it on when I’m actually just chatting.
Even online dating, speed dating etc etc hasn’t done the trick.
How on earth does a 43 year old virgin with a crap personality meet someone and then hopefully cheer up and stop being a cock?