On line date coming to house on second date?

[3beardedgoats]

So have been chatting on line then by phone to a guy I met on line for around 5 weeks. We've only managed to meet up once so far due to child care issues between us and I foresee possible further child care issue next week when we've arranged to see each other out for lunch.

I'd originally arranged for him to come to mine in the evening this weekend but have been talked out of it by family who think I shouldn't have him round yet. But I actually can't see why not? And now I think we may have to cancel next week I'm thinking to go ahead with my original plan. I really like this guy.

Is it a no no?!

Read the rest of my post RedMapleLeaf. And you can go somewhere nice in the daytime! Its stressful not being able to go when and where you want and arrange childcare but this is the reality of being a single parent, especially of younger children!

I can't just get a babysitter ds has special needs.

Plus I don't drink and actually don't like going to pubs etc

But I agree I'd much rather go out for coffee the reason I asked is because we are having trouble arranging day time meet ups!

I would say definitely not...However I didn't take my own advice-met for the first time in a pub, that same night i invited dp to come and stay overnight at mine the following week. 3 1/2 years later we're living together and ive never been so happy. I now know what people meant when they said 'you just know', because I did! X