My 'd'p is beyond horrible

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I had a premature baby 7 weeks ago who is still in hospital (so I'm still a bit emotional). 'D' p is just being beyond horrible to me, every time I say anything which he sees as being critical (ie. last night I asked him to move over in bed - this unleashed a torrent if abuse). He's been saying things like
I'm a vile, horrible person
I'm a twisted f*ck
Everybody hates me (I know that's not true, I have loads of friends)
He's going to tell our baby I ruined our relationship
I'm sick in the head because I told him I hated our baby's name (I only went with it because he sulked so badly and refused to discuss other names)
Etc etc. I can't cope with this. He drinks every night. We are living with my mother at the moment (moving next week) and I'm having to lie beside him. I hate him and I'm devastated for our poor baby. I'm honestly not a nasty person. Don't know what I'm posting for but just need to tell someone as I can't tell anyone in real life.

You're doing the right thing for both you and your beautiful baby

Small steps, and be kind to yourself- you know you deserve better

Had he gone OP? How are you feeling?

Well done op. It took a lot of strength at a time when you are vulnerable. You mentioned living with your DM at the minute, has she been supportive of your decision? Will she stick to him not being allowed back in the property?
Hope your lovely baby is home soon and you can begin your new life. Remember, he is the problem, never listen to him, never let him back.

Has OP made him leave? I thought they were both at DM's and babe still in hospital?

My stbx was horrendous post partum. I also got told i was a 'twisted fuck' repeatedly. On day 4 he threatened to leave me and packed his car . He went out on drink/drug benders at their worst when I was at my worst and most needt. Advice on here wrt him has been bang on. Although his behavipur has improved since the scars from that time don't heal. Prwgnancy and post partum ate incredibly vulnerable times. Someone who's not got your back at these times, and is an abusive twunt is not good for you.

Please take it from me, you can absolutely do this with your mums support. X